I also don't think you were misreading her signals. My brother does. Killer stuff, thanks for helping all us guys. Can be controlled remotely by your partner, making even long distance hook-ups possible. Whatever the answer is, ultimately it doesn't matter so long as I get an answer. Like, say we have a color drawer, and we learn "magenta", we can put it into that drawer.
Not something to leave everyone feeling shitty about. One is by assimilation. I'd want to be sure they know that this is a fun thing we both can enjoy and of course that she's comfy. Would you like to go on a date?
Yup — it's about making it clear that your a good listener and respectful — it's not about proving you have experience, but that you'd be willing to take some feedback to give her a good one. My professor explained this as putting new things into drawers in our brain. So I want to clarify. I know I shouldn't but it doesn't feel right for some bizarre reason. Physical cues are much trickier because not everyone is comfortable with being physical with someone that early on, regardless of their level of interest.